Tamar Braxton Says She’s Done Blaming ‘Everybody Else’ for the Issues in Her Life: ‘The Problem Was Me’ Tamar Braxton has been open about the work she is doing on herself. She has a new podcast that documents her progress called Under Construction. She recently posted on Instagram, for a longtime I thought it was everyone else. The problem was me #stayunderconstruction. Tamar’s challenges are well documented from her leaving The Real, online battles with her former co-hosts, her issues with her sisters, WeTv etc. Do you or someone you know attend therapy? Has it been a good experience? How long did it take before you were comfortable with your therapist?