Strawberry Letter

If you have an issue that you'd like The Steve Harvey Morning Show to consider for on air discussion and guidance, you may submit your issue in the form of "Strawberry Letter." Your Strawberry Letter may range from personal topics, career decisions, marriage issues, dating issues, social problems, family problems, money matters, religious interests or any other life topics.

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At Least My Fiance' Is Honest

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m getting married soon and I need your advice. My fiancé and I met less than a year ago and we quickly fell in love. Within six months, he proposed. I called up my bestie and asked her to be my Maid of Honor. My bestie got married last year and she moved to another state. We’ve been friends since we were 5 and she was dying to meet my fiancé. Two weeks ago she came to town and I decided to throw a small dinner party and I invited everyone that’s going to be in the wedding…………
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My Husband Needs To Learn A Few Things

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married 4 years and the sex is terrible. We dated for 2 years before we got married and we agreed to wait until our wedding night to have sex for the first time. I was focused on us having a great friendship as well as a spiritual connection, which would lead to a great sex life. He romanced me and did things to me physically that satisfied me so I just knew he was going to be a great lover…………….
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I Make Her Weak In The Knees

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old man and I’m 6 feet tall and I weigh 202 pounds. I work out and eat right and take care of myself. In February, I met a beautiful woman that is a few months younger than I am. She is 5’6” and she weighs 330 pounds. I like what I like, and that happens to be big girls. She is big and soft in the right places and she’s always fly and sexy……………..
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I'm Married To An Escort

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for almost 2 years and I met my wife on a dating website. She was the most beautiful girl I’d ever seen and when we met in person, we quickly fell in love. I came with a little baggage and she admitted that she did too. We are in our mid-forties, so we agreed that our past was the past so that’s where we’d leave it. She works as a guest service manager at an elite country club, so I can golf at the club for free………………..
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The Sidepieces With Trust Issues

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 32 year old female currently dating a 35 year old male and we’ve known each other for years. When he was married, I was his sidepiece. When he got divorced, I was married and he was my sidepiece. I got divorced and we decided it was time to stop playing games and become a couple. We got together and made it official four months ago. He is everything I ever wanted in a man but he has some trust issues……………..
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I Want My Man To Spoil Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and it was really good for the first year. We spent a lot of quality time together and got to know each other by going on great dates. Now that we’ve been together a while and he’s started saying that he loves me, he feels it’s enough to make me happy. He won’t do the things he did in the beginning. I don’t get flowers anymore and he doesn’t take me to lunch like he used to……………..
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My Ideal Man Is On This Radio Show

Dear Steve and Shirley, this is my fourth time writing you so I pray you respond this time. My daughter is leaving home for college in the fall and I’ll be an empty nester. I got divorced 12 years ago so mama is single and ready to mingle. I’ve been praying for God to send me a man and then I heard your show one morning and you were talking to your longtime friend that’s on the show about how he needs a woman…………..
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Do I Chose My Man Or My Friends

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a young, healthy and wise beyond my years single woman, that is a leader to my peers. At my young age, I have found the most handsome and amazing man of my dreams. He is respectful, has a great job, a beautiful home and he treats me like a queen. But here is the problem… well, it’s not a problem for us, it’s more of a problem for our friends and family. I am 22 years old and he is 42 years old. Now I know you are also shocked by our age difference, but I love him and believe age has nothing to do with it………..
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Somebody Has A Secret Admirer

Dear Steve and Shirley, I really need your advice for this issue I’m having. I have fallen for someone that I have never met in person. I have heard him speak almost everyday and I’m not sure if he is single, but I would love to meet him in person. I am single and ready to mingle with him if he is available. This guy makes my toes curl when I hear his voice and the icing on the cake is that he is very funny and quite handsome……………..
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My Lover Calls Me Mom

Good morning Steve and Shirley, I am 50 year old divorced lady with a 28 year old lover. We’ve been together for two years but I met him when he was in college with my son. He came home a few weekends with my son and he started calling me mom back then. After college, he continued to hang out at the house with my son, so I got used to him being around. Well on Easter Sunday, 2017, things changed in an instant, when he rubbed up against me in the kitchen and I felt some kind of way……………
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