Strawberry Letter

If you have an issue that you'd like The Steve Harvey Morning Show to consider for on air discussion and guidance, you may submit your issue in the form of "Strawberry Letter." Your Strawberry Letter may range from personal topics, career decisions, marriage issues, dating issues, social problems, family problems, money matters, religious interests or any other life topics.

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She Knew It And She Married Him Anyway

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m writing this letter to get some advice on how to handle my sister and her new husband. My sister called to let me know she eloped and she’s happily married now. I could not believe it. Four years ago, she met a guy at a restaurant and she started hanging out with him. He told her he was bisexual and she didn’t have a problem with that. As her brother, I told her she should not have married him because he’s obviously confused on what he wants……………
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He Doesn't Like To Wash First

Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I are both in our mid 50’s. We have been dating almost a year and are very much in love with one another. Our sex life has its hills and valleys due to his health conditions and his hygiene. He’s on medication and we got it regulated, but we can’t seem to get past his hygiene issues. Before bedtime, I like to take a nice, hot bath or a shower and I’ll usually invite him to join me. He never does………….
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What Did You Just Say To Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 43 year old man and I’m a manager at my job. I have a new regional director that will be working in our office. We are both black men but he’s older than I am and he has a PhD that he brags on often. When he first got there, it was hard to warm up to him because he’s so entitled and thinks he is better than all of us in the office. Then things started getting tense when he began to critique the employees on my team. I let it slide and then he critiqued me………….
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Should I Tell Him To Stay With His Wife

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 56 years old and I’m dating a 61 year old man that is separated from his wife. He had been pursuing me for a while and when he got a legal separation and moved out, we started dating. That was four years ago and our relationship isn’t what it used to be because his divorce has taken a toll on him. He has paid over $12K to his attorney and he’s got to pay the wife’s legal fees too…………
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My Boyfriend’s Son Is Creeping Me Out

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 35 year old woman and I’m at a loss for words when it comes to my new boyfriend’s four year old son. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months and he felt it was time for me to meet his 4 year old son. He’s told me that I am the first woman he’s been serious about in years and he can see me as his wife someday. So, I met his four year old son and he’s a bit weird. He looked me up and down and said hello, then he stared at my breasts for a long time…………
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She Had My Clothes On When He Walked In

Dear Steve and Shirley, I got in a bad fist fight with my best buddy because of a woman that he is secretly in love with. I had a house party recently and we all had a lot to drink, so I offered to let a few people stay over. All night, my boy was trying to talk to the finest girl that was there and she was not really receptive to him. He told me that she asked about me, but she’s not my type so I didn’t pay it any mind. She ended up staying at my house because she lives in the suburbs and had been drinking……………
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My Mind Says No But My Body Says Yes

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for 9 wonderful years and we’ve never had any major issues in our marriage. He’s great with the kids, he’s a great provider and he’s a hardworking man. The only touchy subject seems to be our sex life or lack thereof. He’s 8 years older…. He’s 48 and I’m 40. He’s been taking medicine that prevents him from becoming aroused and it’s a big problem for me………..
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Don't Bring Anymore Kids To My House

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 62 year old married man and I’ve been married for 30 years. My wife and I have one daughter that is 31 years old and she still lives in our house, with her husband and their 3 children and she had the nerve to announce that she wants another child. I have told her not to bring any more kids to my house, but she thinks I’m joking. Our daughter and her family need to leave our house, or I’m going to leave our house………………
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My Husband's Friend Can't Stay Here

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a very happily married woman in my early 50s and I have an issue with my husband’s long-time friend and fraternity brother. My husband’s friend lives in another state for work, but he loves to come visit all his buddies in the city that my husband and I live in. When he comes to town, he would take turns staying at different friends’ houses. His first visit to our new home was earlier this year and he stayed the entire weekend and that was okay, as a one-time deal……….
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