A source tells ET that Jennifer Lopez is ‘loving the attention’ she is getting from Ben Affleck. The two dated back in 2002 and got engaged, but called off their 2003 wedding before breaking up in 2004. The former flames got acquainted again earlier this year, and now, ET’s source says they ‘care about each other a great deal’ and have ‘fully reconnected.’ As for Lopez’s ex-fiancé, Alex Rodriguez, a second source tells ET that if it was up to him, he’d still be with her.