Polite In The Streets, Rude In The Sheets

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 52 year old newlywed and I married a pastor whose wife died 5 years ago. Long story short, I started attending his church around 5 years ago and he was very polite and welcoming, but I had no idea he was interested in me. When his wife died, I attended the memorial service and he gave me a lingering hug in the back of the church……………….