Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 45 year old black man. My fiancé is 56 and she’s a great woman, but I’m worried about marriage. We like to kick back and relax and drink wine and alcohol. It depends on our mood, so sometimes it’s wine and sometimes it’s the hard stuff. We pretty much drink every day after work. I’m more relaxed and mellow when I’ve had a few drinks, but she is the opposite of me. She likes to get angry, cuss and fuss and bring up a bunch of old stuff, trying to start an argument……………..

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