He Ruined His Chances For Intimacy

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your input please. I live in the UK, right outside of London and I love your show. I have known this gentleman friend of mine for 2 years. We have a great friendship so a few weeks ago, I invited him over for the weekend. It started out as a great meet-up and I was glad to finally get to spend time with him. I asked him if he wanted to share my bed or sleep in my guest room………………