Tamar Braxton Defends ‘Fat’ Ex-Husband While Showing Off ‘Fit’ New Bae Tamar Braxton does not acknowledge fat shaming especially when it comes to her ex-husband, Vincent Herbert. While debuting her new man in an Instagram video, fans were quick to point out the differences between the two. “When you go from fAt to FIT.. the experience is sooo different and electrifying.” one fan commented on the video of Braxton’s bae walking out of the pool. “Don’t do that boo! We just didn’t work out. Don’t shame that man like that please.” Tamar fired back at the fan. Do you think people should be more tolerant of overweight people?